Decide How Much You Want To Spend On A Ring


To make the process easier have a price range in mind before you start to shop. Going in with fairly specific parameters will help your jeweller find the right engagement ring to fit your budget.


Before you even set foot in a jewelry store there is a lot to learn about diamonds. A good place to start is with the 4Cs – Color, Clarity, Cut and Carat Weight – so you understand how each influences the value of the diamond and adds to the overall appearance of the stone. In doing this you can decide which is the most important to you.


If you pay attention to the kind of jewellery she already wears it could go a long way in helping you pick out the perfect ring. Does she wear more white metals or yellow gold? Do her pieces tend to be more delicate or chunky? Sleek or ornate? Have these preferences in mind when you set out to shop. If you buy something similar to what she already likes, you can't go wrong.


If she wears rings, borrow one she already owns. Trace the inner circle on a piece of paper, or press the ring into a bar of soap for an impression. You can also slide it down one of your own fingers and draw a line where it stops. A jeweller can use these measurements to identify her approximate ring size.

If she doesn't wear rings you can estimate in the following manner: The average ring size in Canada is 6 (based on the 'average' Canadian female being 5'4" tall and weighing 140 lbs.) If she's more slender, or fine-boned, her ring size is probably in the 4 1/2 to 5 1/2 range. If she is heavier, larger-boned or taller, her ring size is probably in the 6 1/2 to 7 1/2 range. It's always better to buy a ring a bit bigger than you think she'll need, because sizing a ring down is much easier than increasing its size.


If she hasn't made it easy for you by already voicing an opinion or showing you a picture in online, in a magazine (or admiring someone else's engagement ring), keep these thoughts in mind when considering shape.

She will be wearing the ring every day of your married life. She will want it to go with everything from jeans to evening wear. If you're uncertain about her diamond shape preference, it's sensible to stick to the classics, such as a round or square shape. They became classics because they are the most popular for most people.

Certain shapes pair more successfully with other shapes in multi-stone rings. Round, oval and marquise shapes work well sitting side-by-side. Pear and heart shapes are more challenging.


These diamonds feature a range of shapes and cutting styles. From left: cushion cut, Ascher cut, emerald cut, princess cut, oval shape, marquise shape, pear shape.

Preference in shape may be reflected in other parts of her life. If she prefers clean, modern lines in furniture, for example, it's likely she may tend to like the same aesthetic in rectangular or square shapes. If she leans towards the traditional, a round shape rarely misses. Are her tastes eclectic or bohemian? She may favor more unusual shapes, like a triangular or marquise shape.

A diamond’s cutting style refers to its facet arrangement, rather than its shape. Round-shaped diamonds, for example, are cut in the brilliant style − an arrangement of 57 or 58 facets designed to maximize the diamond’s sparkle and minimize the appearance of inclusions. The fewer the facets, the more visible any inclusions will be, so a cutting style such as a step cut (a.k.a. emerald cut), for example, requires higher clarity in the diamond.


Consider her lifestyle and how well a certain setting design will fit into it. If she's more active or outdoorsy, look for lower profile, less ornate or more secure mountings, which are less likely to get knocked against or caught on things. If she's more of a glamour girl, look for statement settings, with a higher stone profile and more intricate ring detailing.

While there are endless design choices you can make for her ring, there are some basic setting types you are likely to encounter: 



A single stone and still the most popular style choice in engagement rings. If prong set, the head secures the diamond and the prongs allow the diamond to catch the most light. A six-prong setting is more secure than four prongs. A bezel setting is even more secure and protects the girdle of the stone, but allows the diamond to catch less light than a prong setting.




Smaller diamonds or other gemstones that flank the larger center stone for additional sparkle or color. Popular sidesstone settings include claw, channel (which protects stones by keeping them flush), and bar-channel (which allows more light to enter the sidestones). They can have sidestones that flank the centre stone as well as stones set in the shank of the ring.




Typically, the diamonds are the same shape with the center diamond larger than the two sidestones.




The center stone is surrounded by tiny gemstones in a pave (pah-vey) or claw set setting, usually diamonds, to add sparkle and to give the appearance of a larger center stone.


A diamond engagement ring is meant to last a lifetime so it is often made of gold or platinum - highly durable metals that can withstand many decades of daily wear. Metal color is a matter of personal preference with gold providing more color options: white, yellow or rose. Metal color is also a consideration since the appearance of a diamond’s color is affected by its surroundings. Once you’ve selected your diamond, ask your jeweller to show you how it would look with different colored metals.


You don’t have to go it alone. A good jeweller will ensure that your engagement ring buying process is stress-free. He or she will educate you about the 4Cs of diamond quality, answer your questions in detail, and help you narrow your choices to those that fit your intended’s tastes and your budget. Look for a jeweller that is professional and has good reputation – asking friends or relatives for recommendations or you can look at online reviews. You should also ask for a grading report, like those provided by GIA and other labs, prior to purchasing a diamond to validate the quality of your purchase.

Buying an engagement ring can be much simpler than you think, if you educate yourself about diamonds and the 4Cs, know her tastes and find a good jeweler to work with. You should enjoy the process and imagine the look surprise and love you’ll get when you put that perfect ring on her finger!